If Only…

16 May

This Mother’s Day, I was reminded of the philosophy that less is sometimes more. There is incredible joy in having an only child. This is where someone usually comments on the benefits of having a sibling or reminds me the ways in which my child’s personality will be potentially damaged by being “spoiled” with attention. There are merits to every family configuration, but I am here to celebrate my blessing. One little boy, showered with love and undivided attention who would be inevitably damaged by something I did no matter how many siblings he had.

I love having an only child, and these pictures of Katie and her daughter hopefully capture that magic of that relationship. Although there are times when having one child can be an exercise in patience, there are times when the bond is indescribable. And as my son pointed out, “It’s a good thing that you only have one child, Mom. It’s a whole lot cheaper!” Add that to the list of benefits of having an only child. Happy Mother’s Day to mothers of one or many!

We end it BIG {Raleigh Senior Photographer}

5 May

This high school senior is headed to Appalachian State University in the fall. Having spent time with her today, I would say that it is a perfect fit. I have never met a person from ASU who I didn’t like! People who go to ASU tend to be down-to-earth, easy-going, and have a real respect for nature and life in general. Katie seems to be no exception. Plus, she has a big fat peace symbol on the back of her car, so I would say that she’ll fit in very well in Boone!

Obviously, I had a hard time narrowing down the photos since she is so photogenic and fun. The locations and outfits that she picked were perfect and reflect the many sides of her personality.

Katie’s high school has a graffiti wall that is redesigned every year by the senior class. I’m so glad that she wanted to have a few shots in from of the wall since it made an amazing backdrop. It was great to see a high school encourage graffiti art although I’m sure the principal still calls it a “Student Mural.” I was impressed by the intricate design, detailed execution, and symbolism. The wall has special significance to Katie and the Class of 2012, so we took some shots there as a way to end it BIG!

My Big Bro

26 Apr

Having two weeks in Florida allowed me some time to take photographs of my family. My sister-in-law, Sandi, asked me to take some pictures of her and my brother, Gary, since it had been years since they have had any photos together. It’s a shame that couples tend to stop documenting their love since, like people, relationships grow and change over time.

Gary and Sandi got married when I was only eight years old. In fact, I was a little flower girl at their wedding. High school sweethearts, these two have spent over three decades together and produced three great children and two beautiful granddaughters. It’s a nice reminder for all of us to take time to get photographs taken with our loved ones. There is beauty at every stage.

A second set of pictures will be coming with them with their other beloved child, their Harley-Davidson motorcycle. Check back in for some shots of them in their “Harley gear” and my first Harley-Davidson photographic experience! It was loud but fun.

Adrianna

25 Apr

How could I forget my other niece, Adrianna? The one who was more interested in catching crabs on the beach than sitting for pictures. The one who is always up for a challenge and the one to get everyone laughing. She is turning into a young woman all her own. She is the little sister who is carving her own path, and I can’t wait to see where she ends up!

Quinceañera

23 Apr

When I was in Florida, I wanted to take my niece, Isabel, to the beach to take pictures to be displayed at her Quinceañera on April 28th. Knowing that I couldn’t get back to Florida for the celebration, I am happy that at least my pictures could be at her Cocoa Beach party celebrating her 15th birthday. The prints are on the way, Isabel!

It’s been so fun to watch a little baby girl with a full head of hair that stood up in every direction turn into the raven-haired beauty below. I’m constantly in awe of the person you are becoming, Isabel. Your poise, intelligence, and determination will carry you far in life, and your talents, from the volleyball court to your singing performances, will continue to set you apart. Enjoy your special day, and know that I am there in spirit. I wish that I could be celebrating with you since you know how well my side of the family can dance to Cuban music! Feliz Cumpleaños!

An Artist’s Son

29 Mar

I have been looking forward to this session for awhile since Farrall, the mother, and I share similar creative visions. In our heads, we had big plans for this session, but we were reminded quickly that sometimes you just need to follow the lead of the two-year-old. Many of the props that his mother laid out were ignored while he ran around the yard in search of a new activity. We had the best luck heading to an older area of town where the colors were vibrant and the distractions were many. We worked fast and furious with nap time looming. Next time, I want his mom and dad in the pictures too, but this session was all about adorable and well-dressed Lance.

My son is becoming quite a useful photo assistant, and he works for Legos. I was thankful that Farrall suggested that he came with me that day because having a big boy there was the perfect way to work with a little boy. I would instruct my son to stand where I wanted Lance, and Lance would go running right next to him. My son would duck out of the picture, and come stand by me to make him laugh. The best part of the day for both boys was getting dirty in the backyard looking for wildlife. Finding a frog is always the highlight of the day!

26.2

19 Mar

When I first met David, he had just completed one of his many races, and this had me slightly concerned about our compatibility. After all, I only run while being chased, and even then I’m more inclined to duck into the bushes. Running for fun is a foreign concept for me, but over the past year, I have come to gain an appreciation for the art of running. I even bought a fancy pair of sneakers at a running expo. Wait, I meant that I bought a pair of athletic shoes. I’ve been informed that nobody calls them sneakers anymore. I might even get to test them out one day if I ever acquire a stalker or encounter a mean pit bull.

For the past four months, I have watched David train for his first marathon. He has suffered through knee injuries, deprived himself of his favorite foods, and experienced a weight loss that rivals Gandhi’s. He has set aside his favorite beverages for nutritional goo and odd-colored drinks with titles containing the powerful words and a plethora of promises. He has had a revolving door of strep throat at his house, and his concern for germs was at all time high. He had a training schedule to follow, and illness, cold weather, and a lack of motivation never stopped him. He set a personal goal and with a sense of dedication that I admire so much, he did everything that he could do to achieve it. I had no doubt that he would finish the grueling 26.2 miles. I just hoped that his knee would cooperate enough to allow him to get his big Flavor Flav medal.


As you can see, he succeed at the Tobacco Road Marathon today. His two boys were there to cheer him on, and during the last part of the race, they ran with David to the finish line with my son in tow as well.


On the shuttle bus back to my car, we were surrounded by racers who were physically exhausted but emotionally elated. The sense of relief was palpable. It was inspiring, and I have a new appreciation for those people with a “26.2″ magnet on the back of their car. I will no longer assume that they are a math teacher or perhaps a member of a secret numerical gang. Thanks to David, I now know that those people are ones who challenged themselves to be better, stronger, and more determined than ever. Congratulations, David. I’m so proud of you. Now take a rest, and eat some ice cream before your next adventure.

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